David and I love being naked, when-ever, and where-ever we can. But that wasn’t always the case. I used to be self-conscious and insecure about exposing myself in front of others. It took me awhile to get used to be naked in public, like on a nude beach, or at a swinger party. Now, after many years of being a swinger, I’ve lost many of my inhibitions and I feel much more confident about myself and my body. Being naked gives me a sense of freedom and equality. A feeling I think everyone should experience, at least once.
But, if you’re a bit too shy to strip down in front of others, you might want to start practicing being naked in a trusted environment. Doing activities in the nude can make you more aware of your physical self and help you feel more at ease with your body. I’m not suggesting anything extreme, just a few things to gently nudge you out of your comfort zone.
1. Take a Luxury Bath
Add your favorite bath salts or bubbles. Light some candles and relax. While you are soaking in the tub, caress yourself and focus on the sensation of being touched. Think about how good your body feels. Appreciate yourself. Self-discovery is an important avenue into self-love.
2. Sleep Naked
There’s nothing like the feeling of crisp clean sheets on your naked skin, especially on your soft supple parts. Slide yourself into bed, spread your legs and roll around a little. Feel the sensation. Then snuggle up to your loved one and press your bodies together and melt away into a heavenly dream.
3. Share Dinner in the Nude
This is where you can let all your senses explode. Strip down while in the kitchen. Prepare your favorite romantic dinner, something you can eat slowly and deliberately. Perhaps something you can feed each other. Eating can be as sensual as sex. Make the naked dinner experience, the foreplay to your love-making.
4. Spend the Day at a Spa
Spending time in an environment where it’s okay to be nude, is a great way to “practice” being naked. Get a massage and sit in the sauna with others who are in the same boat as you, probably a little shy and nervous too. Remember to keep a positive and confident attitude and you’ll ace it!
5. Get Fitted for Sexy Lingerie
A professional lingerie fitter will take an objective view of your body. Pay attention to what she says. She will point out your best assets and tell you how to display them. Then when you get home with your sexy new outfit, model it in front of a mirror. Admire yourself. Focus on the assets. You can let him watch, but don’t forget to put on heels.
6. Take That Nude Photo
Letting a photographer capture the true essence of your body is like revealing the ‘naked truth’. Besides giving you an opportunity to be naked in a situation where you would normally be clothed, being photographed au naturel, will yield a sensual souvenir that you can use for inspiration. A good boudoir photographer will highlight those assets and make you shine where you have never shone before.
These are just a few of the ways that you can get more comfortable in your own skin. Let us know if you have any further advice for our sexy-shy friends. Leave a comment about how you deal with your naked confidence.
Stay Sexy XXOOXXOO